As an artist, I often wrestle with fear, doubt, and the weight of others’ opinions. But I know these feelings aren’t unique to artists—they’re universal. No matter your profession, your passions, or your dreams, these obstacles can creep in and hold you back. And for too long, I’ve let them slow my own growth.
But here’s the truth: I am in control. I don’t have to get stuck in these thoughts. Instead of letting them paralyze me, I can turn them into action. When I do, I move forward, grow, and develop into the person I’m meant to be. It’s time for a shift.
Here are three common obstacles—and the solutions I’m using to overcome them.
1. Fear of the Unknown
I’ve spent too much time worrying about things that might never happen. Fear of uncertainty has kept me from taking risks, launching new ideas, and trusting the process. But the reality is, most of the situations I stress over never actually occur.
The solution? Stay present. When I focus on what’s happening right now instead of the endless “what ifs,” I make better decisions. If I allow fear of the unknown to take over, I freeze. But when I bring my attention to the present, I move forward.
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📖 “So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.” — Isaiah 41:10
2. Feeling Unworthy
Who am I to do this? That question has echoed in my mind more times than I’d like to admit. I’ve doubted my abilities, told myself I wasn’t experienced enough, or convinced myself that others were more deserving of success. But that’s just fear in disguise.
The truth? Abundance exists. There is enough space, success, and opportunity for all of us—including me. I remind myself that age, finances, and formal training do not define my worth. I think about Frank Lloyd Wright, who completed a third of his life's work between the ages of 80 and 92. I think about how my wisdom and experience only add more depth to what I create.
The key is to develop an abundant mindset. When I believe that creativity, opportunity, and success are not limited resources, I create with confidence. And that negative committee in my head? It’s time to evict them.
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📖 “For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.” — Ephesians 2:10
3. Worrying About What Others Think
This one has kept me from taking bold steps. The fear of judgment has made me second-guess my work and hesitate to put myself out there. But the more I focus on other people’s opinions, the less I focus on becoming who I’m meant to be.
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The answer? Surround myself with the right people. The ones who remind me that what I create matters. The ones who support and inspire me. When I shift my focus away from external approval and instead lean into my purpose, I gain confidence. Fear of judgment never fully disappears, but I don’t have to let it dictate my choices.
📖 “Am I now trying to win the approval of human beings, or of God? Or am I trying to please people? If I were still trying to please people, I would not be a servant of Christ.” — Galatians 1:10
Moving Forward
I refuse to stay stagnant. I refuse to let fear, doubt, or outside opinions dictate my path. Instead, I choose to:
1️⃣ Stay present – No more worrying about what might happen. I will focus on today.
2️⃣ Develop an abundant mindset – There is enough room for all of us to succeed.
3️⃣ Surround myself with the right people – Encouraging, creative, growth-minded people who push me forward.
I am in control of my thoughts. I refuse to get stuck. It’s time to turn these thoughts into action.
What about you? Have these obstacles ever held you back? Let’s talk about it in the comments—I’d love to hear your thoughts!